The Decisive Moment
June 1st, 2009VICKY:
How was your trail race this weekend?
GRANT:
What trail race?
VICKY:
Weren’t you going to Mt. Tremblant for the 5 Peaks race?
GRANT:
Oh yeah, that. Funny story. Remember how I said I was going to go up there with a photographer and she was going to take pictures for the blog. Well I went to Montreal to pick her up on Saturday morning. It turns out that she is incredibly beautiful and cool. She’s super smart. In addition to being an amazing photographer she is working on her PHD identify biomarkers for autoimmune disorders. I just nodded my head and pretended to understand what she was talking about when she was describing her work. Anyway, as we were driving up there I was thinking, what the hell am I doing going up to run in the mud and get all sweaty when I could be hanging out with this woman? So I intentionally got lost on the way up. I drove all around Mt. Tremblant village and down to the lake. It looked completely believable and she didn’t suspect a thing.
Once I knew the race was safetly under way we drove up to the resort. I convinced her to go hiking with me around the trails.
VICKY:
Smart thinking.
GRANT:
Yeah, it was going great. I used all my favorite jokes.
VICKY:
Oh no.
GRANT:
We wandered around along the streams and climbed half way up the mountain. She’s in awesome shape. It turns out she is a long distance swimmer. She swims two hours a day every day. She took photos of trees and ponds and spiderwebs. We went down to the village and ate lunch. She ordered a large amount of food for herself, but I didn’t think much of it at the time. We also ran into some black standard poodles: potential boyfriends for Ébène.
VICKY:
Then what happened?
GRANT:
Then I was like, jeez, I don’t want to take her home yet, so I invented the idea that I needed to interview her for the blog. I am telling you that I didn’t want the day to end. This woman is amazing. She has an incredibly beautiful face with these cute freckles. She speaks 5 different languages. She’s a vegetarian and a Buddhist. She’s really humble. I would say almost ordinary. Quiet and soft spoken. I don’t want to be vulgar here either but I have to say that she has an awesome body. Just fabulous. If you want to have a beautiful body then start swimming for two hours a day. It works great. Anyway, she seemed to be into me as well. She wants to teach me calligraphy and Mandarin.
VICKY:
Wow this sounds great. What about the interview?
GRANT:
Oh yeah. So, Yee, please tell me about your long distance swimming?
YEE:
First of all Grant, congratulations for being in the final five in the blogging contest.
My long distance swimming? Hmmm…I never thought it’s extraordinary and worth mentioning
It’s just something I really enjoy doing. You know, with enduring activity you can easily enter a ‘zone’ similar to meditation. That’s what I like about it. I can refer you to some people who are much better long distance swimmers (more professional) than I am, if you are interested.
GRANT:
Er, um, actually I would prefer more to hear from you about your swimming. What kinds of things do you think about while you are swimming. Swimming is a fascinating activity because there is a kind of sensory deprivation which goes on, isn’t there?
YEE:
I often chant ( in my mind, of course) when I swim…mostly Om Mani Padme Hum. I think I am even a less serious Buddhist than you. It is very much integrated in my life that most times I don’t think about it. To the western societies, Buddhism seems very much a ‘new age’ thing, but it’s part of my life, I was born into a Buddhist family, and also later in life chose to be a Buddhist myself. Part of the reasons I became a vegetarian 9 years ago was due to Buddhism, but now it’s more because I don’t agree with modern farming and how animals are treated. I am not a ’serious’ vegan either, as I do eat fish and eggs and dairy products–I LOVE cheese…See, I am never too serious with anything, so I am also a Middle Path person.
I believe in moderation, and this includes moderation itself. You know meditation well. I guess you know that one technique is concentrate on breathing. I guess most times that’s what swimming is all about: count your strokes and breathes. That’s why I often see swimming as my meditation exercise.
GRANT:
I also have to say what an incredible photographer you are.
YEE:
Thank you for the compliments on my photos. Photography has been my hobby for 10 long years. I am an admirer of Henri Cartier-Bresson. Do you know his work?
GRANT:
No.
YEE:
He has a late photograph that he took when he was in his seventies, I think, of a tree in Tuscany. The shadow streamed down on the field, alongside his own shadow – both running raggedly parallel. He has elevated ’snap-shooting’ to the level of refined and disciplined art. I like what he wrote in ‘The Decisive Moment’. ” In photography, the smallest thing can be a great subject. The little human detail can become a leitmotif. Most of his photography is a collection of such little, human details; concerned images with universal meaning and suggestion. To take a photograph is putting one’s head, one’s eye, and one’s heart on the same axis.
VICKY:
Wow this woman seems right up your alley.
GRANT:
Yeah, it was all going great until dinner.
VICKY:
What happened then?
GRANT:
Well we were continuing the interview. She had suggested we go to an Indian buffet in downtown Montreal. It did seem like she really liked me…
YEE:
Grant you have a great personality and your eyes…. what colour are they?
GRANT:
Brown?
YEE:
No, maybe amaretto? Brown with a hint of gold. I’ve seen your eyes before. Many years ago I met this tour guide in Egypt…. when I saw him I thought, I will never see eyes like this ever again in my life. But you have them. I would love to take photographs of your eyes.
GRANT:
Thank you that is very flattering.
But at that moment I looked down at the plate of food she had in front of her. We had gone up to get food at the buffet tables. I had taken alot, like I normally do. I was feeling a bit shy, because I was trying to make a good impression. She had taken about twice as much food as me. I only wish we had photos. The food was literally spilling off the plate. Cabbage, samosas, potatoes, naan bread, rice, the list goes on. I was shocked, but I tried to stay focused on the interview and we continued to talk about swimming, Buddhism, calligraphy, yoga. She finished eating and I continued to pick away at what was left on my plate. As soon as I finished she asked if I wanted to go up and get more. I said, no thanks, but she should feel free to go up if she wanted anything else. I was joking, but she went up. She got a plate full of food as big as the one before and another plate with a pile of fruits for dessert. I couldn’t believe what I was witnessing. She eats like Henry the VIII and Michael Phelps combined.
VICKY:
I wish I could eat like that.
GRANT:
I don’t know. I was really disturbed. I took her home right away. There is no way I could go out with someone like this. Consider the cost of feeding her alone. I would need to get a second job.
Tags: 5 Peaks, Henri Cartier-Bresson, Henry the VIII, Michael Phelps, Mt. Tremblant, Photography, The iRun Bachelor, The Negative Splits, Vicky and Grant










