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iRun because couch potatoes die young Cathy Andrew, Ontario

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iRun because I learn more about who I am with every kmSteph Mansell, Quebec

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iRun because I get foot rubs afterward Kate Howerton, British Columbia

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iRun because somebody once told me I couldn’t Heidi Abbey-Der, Saskatchewan

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iRun because it cleans up my life, because I drink more water, sleep better and eat healthier foodsRobin McIntyre, Ottawa, ON

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iRun because I like to be healthy Melanie Oickle, New Brunswick

iRun because it has saved my life John Marshall, Alberta

iRun because it gives me freedom to relax my brainMarie-Claude Gregoire, Nova Scotia

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iRun because it makes me feel powerful Sarah Kallaghan, Alberta

iRun because it is my tonic and my salvation Georgia Ioannou, British Columbia

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iRun slowly!Jason Hoffman, Manitoba

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iRun because it makes me whole Denis Ladouceur, Quebec

iRun to prove to myself I canLesley McGougan, Brampton, ON

iRun for the challenge to go faster and farther Steven Matejka, Alberta

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iRun because I’ve lost 80 lbs and running has become fun Cheryl Kelly, Ontario

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iRun because it’s better than almost everything else Nathan Carey, Ontario

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iRun all the livelong day Pierre Saint-Laurent, Québec

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iRun because it makes me a better person, a better wife, a better mother and a better friendNathalie Joncas-Caissie, St-Antoine, NB

iRun to stay fit and release those running endorphinsLiliana Plava, Calgary, AB

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iRun because all the ladies are chasing my sexy runner’s bodyChris Baker, Etobicoke, ON

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iRun see where my feet will take me todayMegan Dolinskas, New York

iRun to maintain a strong physical and mental state Tammy Rainville, Ontario

iRun slowly! Jason Hoffman, Manitoba

iRun because it gives my day a boost of energy Sara Campbell, Nova Scotia

iRun to challenge myself, physically and mentallyKathleen Keenan, Brampton, ON

iRun for the fresh air and adrenalin Charlyn McGregor, Saskatchewan

iRun because otherwise I’m grumpy Alexandre Charest, Quebec

iRun because it reminds me that I am capable of so much more than I have doneJames Sauve, Ottawa, ON

iRun because endorphins are freeCassandra Chouinard, Ontario

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The 'Oops' Factor

Welcome to the Oops Factor - where you get to learn from our mistakes.
This month, we’re talking about young runners and how to motivate them without pushing too hard. Think “How to” instead of “What not to do.” Actually, we’re going to talk about one young runner and what motivated him. More accurately, we’re going to talk about ME and why I run and what has kept me running.

When I first started running almost 30 years ago, all I wanted to do was be the fastest in gym class so we could get to the fun stuff like playing games. We all had to run a whole mile every class, and the sooner we got the run done, the more time we had to play, so that was our incentive. Eventually, being the first person dine in the class became my goal, and one that I shared with an equally able and motivated classmate. We exchanged ‘wins’ on a regular basis. We pushed each other every day, and we pulled the rest of the class. Eventually, the teacher suggested we both run cross country for the school, and that was the beginning of my new life as ‘Rick the Running Guy.’

I was very motivated to do the training on my own and basically raced every run I did. I regularly tested myself against the clock or the bus almost every run—yes, the bus. I’d meet up with the school bus about 2 miles from school and made it my goal to beat the students on the bus to the front doors. The school bus was actually a city bus and it had to stop and pick people up along the way, whereas I did not. It was like the tortoise and the hare: I was the tortoise that did not stop, and the bus was the hare that stopped fairly regularly. I often beat the bus and my fellow students were amazed and complimented me. That positive feedback from my peers was all I needed to feed my motivation and desire to win a few tight races with good competition, motorized or otherwise. These victories made it even more rewarding and fun.

I think some of the crucial ingredients to getting kids (or anyone for that matter) into competitive running and keeping them running is what I had right from the start: desire, a worthy adversary I could beat some of the time, positive reinforcement and fun, each of which fed the other.

What I did not have was a set of parents applying high pressure to perform—they were supportive, but my parents and siblings took it all in stride (no pun intended) and even kept me grounded when my ego got a bit too big. My family was not impressed because I only won small races. I never won the big races. Heck, I rarely won the under 19 category in Ottawa. None of us realized that it often took some future Olympians and Canadian Champions to beat me. My not winning those races certainly made me try harder and developed my ability to throw myself on the sword to win.

I was very lucky to actually train with these future Olympians and Canadian Champions as well as race against them. We had an amazingly talented training group and were goo friends that pushed and pulled each other to faster times. We were all able to separate the competitive juices and use them only when we needed to. We were friends who warmed up and joked together before the race who became mortal enemies after the gun went off, then morphed back to friends again as soon as the race was over. Being able to contain the competitive spirit in such a small box allowed us all to keep a good perspective on what we were doing. Except for one guy named Jon Halvorsen, each of us had also been humbled by each other at least one time and so had a healthy respect for the talent and what the others could do on the right day. Jon was already a humble speedster, so he fit right in. We never took for granted that the pecking order or results were pre-determined, which kept us focused and maybe a bit hopeful to move up the ranks.

This training group really exemplified the power of training partners and the value in finding people to play with that have a similar level of ability and mindset. Nowadays, running groups are everywhere and many of the local running stores have one. The most obvious example is the Running Room Run Club with their mobs of runners broken into pace groups. They’ve set the bar very high and their formula certainly is successful at both getting people running, but also keeping them running.

Based on my experience so far, I believe the ingredients necessary for the young runner to have a long and successful running career are as follows:
• Support with positive reinforcement.
• Enjoyment—obviously, one has to like to run, but a good group of friends who also like to run is very helpful.
• Competitive spirit that likes a good battle with a worthy adversary, no matter where they are in the field of athletes.
• The inherent belief that if they can’t win, they can at least try as hard as they can and hope to improve.
• An acceptance that they can only do the best they can on the day.
• A healthy respect for the ability of others, regardless of how good they are relative to you.
• An understanding that the goal of every race or training outing should be to execute things properly, and not so much about the times. Given various situations, times are dynamic and to a certain extent, out of their control, but executing pacing, strategy, attitude, equipment choices are all things they can control 100% and getting them all right on a regular basis is a victory in and of itself.

One ingredient that some may feel is missing is talent or ability.

I honestly do not feel this is a necessary aspect to get into and to continue running for a long time. Certainly talent is necessary to do well, but to be competitively minded, to enjoy running or to make a running routine a fact of life, it is not. All of these aspects are completely within your control, and by incorporating them into your running mindset, the chances of a long and healthy career are good to great.

 
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